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the happy couple

In married with children on November 13, 2009 at 7:50 pm

stuff 011Tessa and Carson sitting in a tree….ok, in the hallway at daycare. 

Every morning as Tessa walks in the door, Carson says, “Hi Tessa” in a very sweet, loving tone.  Tessa replies in the same tone, “Hi Carson”. 

Many of the high school students (that work in the day care) have mentioned how cute Carson and Tessa are together.  They are “joined at the hip” so to speak. 

When you ask Tessa about Carson, she starts to whisper and giggle saying, “he’s my boyfriend”.  And from what I hear, Carson feels the same. 

Tessa says that they plan to get married when they grow up and they want to have a ball pit at the wedding.

parenting

In married with children on November 9, 2009 at 10:13 pm

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I saw this comic strip and found it to be first, really funny, and second, really true!

Being a psychology major in college combined with my experience working with people with disabilities, I used to think that I knew a lot about being a parent.  I would see mothers in the stores with their screaming children and I would judge them.  “My children will never act like that”, I would think to myself.  Or, I’d see little kids running around with bare feet on dirty floors with stains on their shirts and runny noses and I’d think “not my kids, never”. 

So there I was on Saturday night, sitting in the germ-infested McDonalds playland with two bare-footed, runny-nosed kids with stains on their clothes and messy hair and feeding them greasy chicken nuggets and fries.  It occurred to me that I am not the mother that I thought I would be.  They have worn me down. 

But, I think that every parent must think, “my kids won’t be like that” before they have children, or no one would ever procreate.  Don’t get me wrong, I love my children dearly, but OH I’m so tired.

Wrestle-Mania

In married with children on November 6, 2009 at 10:22 pm

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Nate has begun an exciting career in wrestling.  Ok, I don’t know if it’ll become a career, but he really likes it…and he’s pretty good at it!!

He had the opportunity to sign up for “little Vikes wrestling” sponsored by the high school wrestling team.  He had his first “match night” last night.  He did a fabulous job and I was so proud of him.  He is pretty strong for a little guy.  He has two more “match nights” if anyone’s interested in coming!

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Reflections

In married with children on November 6, 2009 at 10:15 pm

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When I was in Kindergarten, I won first place in the Reflections contest…something I’ve always been very proud of.  I had high hopes that Nate might follow in my footsteps when he had the opportunity to enter the contest this year. 

I bought him a canvas, some paint, and let him “go to” it.  He did a great job and he’s very artistic, in my opinion.  I love his painting and I really thought that he had a shot at winning something.

Much to our dismay, Reflections is not what it once was.  They used to separate the entries by grade so that the students only competed against their own age group.  They don’t do that anymore.  Nate had to compete against 6th graders and needless to say….he is not moving on to the next level.

But….he’s on my top level.  Good Job Nate!!!

trick or treat

In married with children on November 6, 2009 at 9:58 pm

My kids are getting to the age where they are starting to care about trick-or-treating….which was kind of fun this year.  Up until now, they only have wanted to go to a few houses and be done.  This year, they did a few blocks and would have done more, but the little Tessa was done.  (She’s still not feeling it)

We started by going up and down Main Street in Bountiful and visited each of the stores.  Later, we joined Katie, Jason, & Averi at their lovely new home in Roy.  We trick-or-treated in an actual neighborhood….which was refreshing in a world of “trunk”-or-treating.  We started pretty early, so many of the people were not home….or they were at the trunk-or-treat. 

The kids had a lot of fun regardless.  Nate was darth vader, accompanied by his “daughter” Princess Leia aka Tessa. 

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Averi made her debut as a spooky vampire and she looked dang cute….with black hair and all.

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After the treats, we headed back to their house for some taco soup, birthday cake for Joey, guitar hero, and movies.  It was a fun time.

Papa Lee’s Halloween Bash

In married with children on October 26, 2009 at 5:40 pm

We’ve gone without Papa Lee for many years, and now that he’s back….the festivities have begun. 

When I was a kid, my dad always went to great lengths to throw fabulous parties.  This Halloween was no exception.  He went full throttle and the kids had a fun time and were spoiled rotten. 

First, I have to say that I can’t remember the last time that my parents dressed up for Halloween, but they did this year.  They were Elton John and Kelly Osbourne…very cute.

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The house was all decked out for Halloween and Dad had made really cute little place settings for all the kids, complete with their own personalized halloween coloring book and treat bags.  They played some really cute games (winning A LOT of prizes) and then we finished by making some awesome scarecrows.  Afterwards, the kids enjoyed PB&J sandwiches in the shape of bats and carrot sticks while the adults had some taco soup. 

Thanks for the party mom and dad!  The kids were happy to party with you this halloween!

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Spooky Dino Park

In married with children on October 26, 2009 at 4:57 pm

We helped Kris celebrate her birthday by letting her and Bob take us out to dinner and give us free tickets to the Dinosaur Park.  I love her birthday.  :)

The Dino Park was all decked out for Halloween and the kids had a lot of fun!  They got to trick-or-treat, look at all the decorations and dinosaurs, watch a magician, play on the playground and even make slime….which Tessa called Dinosaur boogars.   Thanks for the fun time, Kris & Bob!

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a look at Miles

In married with children on October 22, 2009 at 8:50 pm
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I went to get an ultrasound today…and was pleasantly surprised to be able to get a 3D look at the little guy.  I never was able to get one with my other kids, so I was expecting the same old boring ultrasound photos.  Now I wish that I had brought in a DVD to record it because it looked REALLY good on the screen, much better than the print outs because of the movement. 
I think that he has Joey’s nose and lips, my chubby cheeks, and I see a lot of Tessa in him.  He also appeared to have less hair than the other two kids. 
He weighs about 4 lbs. 5 oz. right now….which is two weeks ahead of schedule, so we may just be home for Christmas afterall. 
Truth be told, I have not been very excited about this pregnancy.  In fact, it’s caused me a lot of worry and depression at times. I have been dreading the day that I’d have 3 to take care of.  I doubted my mothering skills for that challenge.   But I have to say that this picture totally made my day and I finally got a little excited for his arrival.  It’s a real little baby in there with all the parts and everything.  Wow.  And now, I can’t stop looking at it!
And yes, Kenneth, I realize that this has turned into a “mommmy blog”. 

lizards and scorpions and snakes, oh my!

In married with children on October 8, 2009 at 8:36 pm

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We took our freakishly fearless 3 year old daughter to the Reptile Exhibit in Salt Lake last Saturday.  We knew she’d love it, and she sure did.  She wanted to hold everything she saw, and I mean everything.  Sometimes the people gave her a double take when she asked to hold their creature.  She was able to hold a python and a scorpion, pet many snakes and a giant iguana, she also enjoyed petting various lizards.  I think that the scorpions and the snakes are her favorites. 

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Nate also enjoyed the exhibit, although he prefers to look and not touch.  We did talk him into petting a smaller lizard, which was his favorite animal there.  He is NOT interested in those snakes.

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Not a girly-girl

In married with children on September 24, 2009 at 7:56 pm

blog 029We took the kids to Nate’s school carnival last Friday.  They had a lot of fun playing all the games at the various booths.  Towards the end, we discovered the “Fear Factor” booth and just in time for the live snake feeding.  They were feeding two large snakes two very large rats!

Tessa immediately pushed her way to the front of the line where she watched the gruesome event from beginning to end.  She was mesmorized by every bit of it and not one bit afraid of it….and, let me tell you, it was not a pretty sight.  Even as that snake got right up to her face with the rat’s feet and tail hanging out of it’s mouth, she just turned and smiled at me.  She loved loved loved it. 

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After the rat had been completely consumed, we dragged her away.  I stopped to give Nate his last tickets and turned around to find her elbow-deep in a bucket of meal worms!!

Fun Fair

In married with children on September 24, 2009 at 7:48 pm

blog 010We went to the Utah State Fair on opening night to take advantage of the $2 entrance fee.  The night still ended up costing $40, however.  What a rip off!!  Next time, we’re eating at Wendy’s before we go…the food prices are WAY to high at the fair. 

The kids had a fun time, though.  They got to do the “helping hands on the farm” exhibit and ride the giant yellow slide.  We finished the evening by looking at lots of animals, which is always fun.  Tessa especially loves the animals. 

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Cheerleader Turned Football Player

In married with children on September 8, 2009 at 3:06 am

9-7-09 006I was so excited that Tessa was finally old enough to participate in the annual Viking “mini-cheer” clinic this year.  The little girls get to learn some cheers with the big girls and then get to perform during the half time of a football game.  Because I’m a faculty member, they do it for just $6!  She got a cute shirt, shorts, and pom poms.  She was very excited to go cheer, as you can see in this picture taken before the game had started.

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When it came time, she stepped out onto the track to do a few cheers.  We soon regretted the cotton candy that she ate during that first half of the game when she began attacking her big cheerleader.  She started with an innocent “hug” and just seemed delighted to see her, but then she got a bit obsessive and the hugs turned to “tackles”.  Then, the other little girls noticed the fun that Tessa was having and decided to join in the fun.  They dog-piled this poor cheerleader almost the entire time! 

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This picture really doesn’t do it justice, really.  We decided that Tessa will probably enjoy contact sports when she gets older.

School Days

In married with children on September 8, 2009 at 2:47 am

9-7-09The start of school was VERY stressful for me for many reasons that I won’t go into right now.  Let’s just say that I’m inches away from a nervous breakdown. 

For Nathan, however, it was fantastic and wonderful.  He loves kindergarten very much.

He is attending MeadowBrook Elementary just a few blocks from Viewmont High (to make it easier to take/pick him up).  His teacher is Mrs. Miller and she is just what you’d expect a Kindergarten teacher to look like and be.  She is great and Nate loves her.

He gets to have a homework book each week, and so far he’s excited to work on it each night.  I can only hope that this attitude continues for the next 12 years.

long awaited news

In married with children on August 13, 2009 at 9:08 pm

New ImageWe have been wondering and discussing the sex of this baby for quite some time.  Because there is a history of heart problems in my family, I always have to wait an extra 4 weeks to discover the sex so that the specialist can then examine the heart at the same time!  It is horrible to wait!  I really don’t know how some people wait till they give birth….I couldn’t do it. 

Well, despite trouble with our first appointment, I was finally able to get my ultrasound today.  She told us that it’s definitely a boy and that he was flaunting his gender quite a bit.  We also saw all the other parts, and they all looked good and normal.  He measured 5 days larger than his due date. 

And so it will be…..Miles Vern Parker.  Looking forward to meeting the little guy.

handcart day parade

In married with children on August 13, 2009 at 12:47 am

8-12-09 006I drove down Main Street Bountiful on the evening of July 22nd and was shocked to see hundreds of people “staking their claims” for the parade that didn’t start until 6:00 pm the next day.  They were all completely ignoring the MANY big signs posted saying that they were not allowed to stake a claim until 7:00 am the next morning and that their things would be confiscated.  I’m not sure if the city actually followed through with their threat  because when I returned to try to stake my claim at 6:55 am the next morning, there were hardly any spots left.  It is unbelievable that so many people go to such great lengths to see a parade.  When I was a kid, I don’t remember it being like that at all.  We just walked down and found a spot.  Those days are gone, sadly.

Because I staked our claim so early in the morning and with limited space available, I didn’t really notice that I staked us right in the sun.  Although the parade started in the evening, it was VERY hot.  You’ll notice in the picture how red our faces were.  I thought I’d melt.  I started to get a bit grouchy.  Why did I bother, I thought to myself.  Why go to all this trouble just to sit in the hot sun and watch a dumb parade?

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But, when all was said and done, I guess it’s just something that you do for your kids.  They had a blast and collected a TON of candy.  And…..I guess I had fun watching them….have fun.

So, will I do this again next year?  Probably.

this was the place

In married with children on July 13, 2009 at 4:46 am

7-12-09 010We had planned to go to “This is the Place” monument/park for our fun friday adventure.  Either we are very lucky or very un-lucky that it was “KSL family fun day” as we noticed on the giant sign as we pulled in.  On the bright side, we got in for free , experienced numerous extra fun activities and enjoyed free water and popsicles.  On the other hand, it was VERY VERY crowded and kids plus popsicles equals messy. 

I hate standing in lines, really hot weather, and walking up a lot of hills.  I had to do all three of these things on the same day.  Ick!  Needless to say, I got a little grouchy by the time we left this little outing.

The kids really had a lot of fun, though.  They got to ride a pony and a train, play some games,  get their faces painted and make a few fun crafts.  I guess it was worth it in the end.

God Bless America

In married with children on July 6, 2009 at 5:52 pm

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We celebrated Independence Day at my cousin’s house.  We’ve been going there for the past 13 years and it’s always a good time. 

We usually start with a good swim, followed by some good food, and then finish with some good fireworks. 

A couple years ago, I was feeling experimental and came up with the idea of making homemade corn dogs.  It is much harder than it might seem to make the darn things, but they are now a huge 4th of July hit.  I made 32 corn dogs and they were GONE within ten minutes.  That always makes me feel special. 

The kids had a really fun time with Nicole’s firework pre-show.  She lit a bunch on the road and they were mesmerized by them.  After the pre-show, the big fireworks began, and then they were bored.  I guess that nothing compares with Nicole’s show. 

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Ducks, geese, and lots of seagulls

In married with children on July 6, 2009 at 5:35 pm

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We held our second “fun friday” at Layton Park.  We had a nice little picnic followed by some bike riding and feeding the birds.  It’s amazing how much the kids love to throw pieces of bread at birds.  They went through about six loaves in about a half an hour.  FYI:  You can buy “bird bread” at the wonder bread outlet.  You get 6 to 8 loaves for only $1.

After the bread was all gone, they hit the playground for a little while.  They played until it became apparent that everyone needed to take a nap….including the parents. 

Before leaving, we made plans to meet up again in the evening for a drive-in movie.  We had a lot of fun.  I love the summer!!

lessons in swimming

In married with children on July 6, 2009 at 5:22 pm

7-6-09 008The kids finished up their two week session of swimming lessons on Friday.   They both passed their levels and had a blast doing it. 

I believe that Tessa had a little crush on her instructor, Randy.  She ran to him each morning and gave him a big hug.  She is still talking about him. 

Nate was the jokester of his group and the only boy.  He had a great time teasing all the little girls from his class.

On the last day, after passing off all their skills, they were VERY happy to receive a sucker (which they ate immediately) and a certificate.  7-6-09 013

As for me, I am so happy to that it’s over for now.  It’s freaking hot in there!  I got a steam bath each morning!

Fun Fridays

In married with children on June 28, 2009 at 12:46 am

6-27-09 024Our summer schedule got off to a late start because of our vacation, but we are all organized now.  Katie and I met last week and came up with a pretty good plan for the summer.

Yesterday was our first “fun friday” and we spent it at the zoo.  Katie’s sister in law, Chelsea and her little girl joined us.  All three of us are pregnant and we were feeling very sleepy as we crept up all those steep hills, but other than that it was a fun day.  My kids really like seeing the animals. 

As for the schedule, if anyone…..and I do mean anyone… would like to join us for any of our activities, let me know.  I’d be happy to email you a copy of our schedule.  The more the merrier, I believe.  So…..please join us when you can!!

Mondays-  clean and do chores day (boring)

Tuesdays- Movie Club day @ Layton Hills Mall- lunch after

Wednesdays-  Swimming @ my house- bring a lunch

Thursday- Service Day @ SDRH- free lunch at the school

Friday-  Fun Friday!  See Schedule

We’ve also scheduled one pot luck park night with husbands and a couple drive-in movie nights!!

Service Day and Free Lunch

In married with children on June 28, 2009 at 12:32 am

 

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We decided to make Thursdays our “service” days ; to  spend time with kids with severe disabilities on the third floor of the South Davis Regional Hospital.  One of my students is currently residing there and I thought it would be nice to visit her.  I had them both pick out books to take to them and read. 

Because my kids spend a lot of time around people with severe disabilities, they weren’t really too shocked by what they saw at the hospital.  Tessa, especially loves to talk and play with the kids.  She was most taken with the really young kids.  She wanted to shake their hands and asked what they’re names were.  Both her and Nate were happy to take pictures with a few of their new friends.  I would love to post some of the pictures, but I don’t have permission from any of our friends.  We plan to take copies to the hospital next week and then make a scrap book.

After the hospital visit, we went to Washington Elementary for free lunch.  It was corn dog day…their favorite.  They LOVE to get “school lunch”….and I like to get FREE lunch. 

It was a very enjoyable day and I was so proud of my kids for being so willing to befriend others.

T-Ball

In married with children on June 28, 2009 at 12:00 am

6-27-09 006This is a picture of Nathan just after he hit his very first ball at his very first game.  Even though everyone was screaming “run, Nate, run” he just stood there watching everyone for awhile.  When he finally started to run, he took the bat with him.  He did well and made it to second base on the next hit, but when it came time to go to third, he got a bit confused and just ran straight into the outfield instead.  It was very cute.

The next time he came to bat, he did much better.  He is aware of all the bases and their placement.  He also dropped the bat.  Good job, Nate!

Happiest Place on Earth

In married with children on June 18, 2009 at 11:07 pm

disneyland 070Joey and I have been wanting to take our kids to DisneyLand since before we even had kids.  We are both big fans of the place.  I remember standing in line to ride the train at EuroDisney and watching the cutest little blonde girl in front of us.  We both envisioned her as what our little “Tessa” would look like.  We imagined how fun it would be to take her there. 

Well, little Nater came before the little Tessa did, but we finally made that trip and had a WONDERFUL time.

kids carMuch to our delight, Jason, Katie and Averi were able to come with us and we all drove down in my pimped out van. It was fun to be able to go spend time with them and the kids were VERY cute together.  We stayed in Primm, at Buffalo Bills on the way there and the way back which was a nice little break from driving.  In California, we stayed at the Ayres Hotel in Orange.  It was a really nice hotel that served a full breakfast each morning and had free shuttle service to the parks.  It all turned out really well.  We went to the parks for five whole days and then spent one day at the beach. 

 

 

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nate jediNater was such a trouper the entire trip.  He walked and walked and walked and NEVER once complained or asked to ride in the stroller.  At the end of one day, I asked him why he had been such a good boy, to which he replied, “I just really enjoy DisneyLand”.  He went on every single ride that he was only afraid of one of them:  Mr. Toad’s Wild Ride….but this was the first ride he went on.  Once he saw that it wasn’t so scary, he settled down and had a blast on all the other rides.  Nate also had the awesome opportunity to participate in “Jedi training” in TomorrowLand.  He was chosen and he was so dang cute up there….fighting Darth Vader. 

 

 

kids BelleAveri was scared of many of the rides and with me being pregnant and not able to ride the good ones, spent a lot of quality time with me.  It was fun to ride a bunch of the “tame” rides with her.  We all got a lot of small world.  I think that Averi’s favorite part of the trip was getting to eat lunch with Ariel and four other princesses at Ariel’s grotto.  When Jasmine came out, Averi stopped drinking her drink and stared at her.  She quietly leaned over and told her mom, “She’s so pretty, I can’t drink”.  Nate wasn’t very excited about the princesses, but he put up with it and even posed for a few pictures. 

 

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All in all, it was a FABULOUS vacation!  I can’t wait to go again….when baby #3 is 40 inces tall. 

 

 

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Due Date

In married with children on May 15, 2009 at 5:48 pm

scan0002It looks like our bundle will arrive around 12/27/09…officially.  Since I have c-sections, I imagine that she’ll schedule it a bit early…before Christmas.  So, it seems we’ll have a special Christmas present.

cute cousins

In married with children on May 13, 2009 at 10:20 pm

5-12-09 001We gathered together for Mother’s Day Brunch on Sunday Morning.  Tessa and Paige were wearing matching outfits and looked so adorable.  They look a lot alike now that Paige got her hair cut. 

After brunch, we went up to the cabin to surprise Kris with a Mother’s day lunch.  Bob bought her a new Kayak and the kids were so excited to be sitting in it when she arrived. 

For my own mother’s day, I enjoyed some art work from my little ones (which I LOVED)  and a gift card from Joey.  He said it was to buy some new maternity clothes….uggh.

A change in plans

In married with children on April 29, 2009 at 8:53 pm

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Exactly one week after Joey’s vasectomy, we discovered that there will be a third.  I had been feeling quite tired and not myself and decided to rule out pregnancy by taking a test.  I was shocked to discover TWO lines when I was expecting to see only one.  I showed it to Joey and he just chalked it up to the cheap test from the dollar store.  Then, he went and watched the Jazz game.  I think he was in denile.  He continued to be in denile over the weekend, and he even “laughed” about it.  I was worried.   I took two additional tests just to “prove” it to him.  He has now accepted it and spilled the beans to his family.  He wouldn’t admit it, but I think he’s kind of excited.  Just regretful about the vasectomy thing.  I feel bad about that too.  I’m also sad that I just sold or gave away all of the baby items that I had….except for the crib.  Oh well.

To make room for our new addition, we are planning to sell our house and move to a bigger one.  We will miss the pool, but I’m on the look out for a garage and a walk in closet this time around.

Cinda-Tessa

In married with children on April 21, 2009 at 10:04 pm

4-21-09-0061Tessa has really taken a liking to scrubbing the floor ever since Nathan “got to” scrub the floor after pee-ing on it.  (yes, he really did)

She asks to scrub the floor nearly everyday.  I hope that she’s this excited to scrub the floor when she gets old enough to do a good job!

Nater Potater

In married with children on April 14, 2009 at 10:01 pm

4-14-09-013Well, it’s been five whole years since little Nater came into my world.  It was a terrifying experience becoming a new mom and in such a violent (c-section) way.  But, I survived and have been blessed by this little boy. 

As of late, Nater has really given me a run for my money.  You might say that he gets a big kick out of “shocking” people by doing strange things. For example, he recently peed on the living room floor in front of his cousin and he “mooned” some of my friends.    I admit that he “might” have gotten this from me.  The shocking part, not the pee-ing….I don’t do that. 

In addition to his shannanigans, Nater LOVES his action figures and video games; he is a true boy.  He’s a huge goof ball, always making faces for the camera and loves to perform little songs for people.  He is a meat eater and his favorite food is ribs.  Nate is also very creative and loves to draw and do “homework” as he calls it.  He is such a little smarty pants too, always wanting to know about stuff and shocking me with his five-year-old wisdom. 

Happy Birthday Naters!!

Easter Festivities

In married with children on April 13, 2009 at 12:18 am

In the five years that we’ve had children, Joey and I have never really agreed on what Santa Claus and the Easter Bunny are really “responsible” for.  We both have completely different ideas on the subject because of the different households from whence we came.  The Easter Bunny, for example, has never hid any eggs for me.  He simply came and put stuff in my basket and left. We went to grandma’s house for the easter egg hunt.  For Joey however, the bunny took their eggs and hid them throughout the house.  Regardless of how you do it, the Easter Bunny is creepy if you ask me. 

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Giving in to Joey’s idea, we decorated the eggs on Saturday night and left them for the Easter Bunny to hide.  The kids really liked dying the eggs.  We shall see if they are equally excited to eat the eggs.  Sunday morning, Nater woke up early and very excited to see what the Easter Bunny had brought him.  He was surprised to find lots of candy, an outfit, and stuffed animal.  They were both delighted with the ritual and when they’re happy, I’m happy. 

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At church, I taught the lesson to the 4-5 year old primary kids.  I explained Jesus’ death and Resurrection, etc.  Then, I asked them to each tell the group a part of the Easter story.  Each of them told me that Jesus hid the Easter eggs.  I knew Joey wasn’t right.

baby animals

In married with children on April 12, 2009 at 10:46 pm

4-12-09-032We drove up to Logan on Friday for the annual Baby Animal Festival at the American West Heritage Park.  My kids have gone to this festival in the past with their babysitter, Reanna.  Since it was my spring break, I got to go this time!   It was really fun, with lots of fun activities for the kids to do, but it was REALLY crowded.  We had to wait in a lot of long lines, which is not easy for little ones….or big ones, for that matter.  Tessa REALLY enjoyed the baby bunnies and Nate liked the baby turtles.4-12-09-006

Since we were in Logan (my absolute favorite town ever) we decided to visit a few favorites.  We ate lunch at the best A&W in the world (really, it is) and then went for ice cream at Casper’s.  Tessa made a gigantic mess with her ice cream cone, but it was cute.  4-12-09-037

Driving back, we hit the Pepperidge Farm outlet and Gossner’s cheese.  All of these festivities completely wore me out!  I slept all the way home.  Thank goodness Reanna drove.

Tessa Lee-ta

In married with children on April 5, 2009 at 9:29 pm

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It was my niece, Averi, that coined Tessa’s nickname, “Tessa Lee-ta” when she was just a baby.  I’ve been calling her that ever since.  I remember from my five years of Spanish, that the ending “lita” means little.  So…I guess we are calling her Little Tessa Lee. 

We celebrated three years with this little princess and we’ve loved  every minute of it.  From the very beginning, she’s been a very good girl, although full of opinions, spunk, and determination.  I’ve always been impressed with how well she catches on to things like swimming, singing, and anything physical, really.  (she definitely didn’t get this from me) 

She’s a fairly obediant child and has always worn her glasses without complaint, just like Dr. Larsen says.  She loves to play cook and take care of her many babies…which she prefers to have naked at all times.  Her pre-school teacher has told me that she’s the smartest in the class and can read a lot of words already.  (this she got from me, definitely) 

I just love her to pieces!  Happy Birthday Tessa-Leeta!

Jazz Girl

In married with children on April 2, 2009 at 10:03 pm

4-2-09-079Joey subjected Tessa to a Jazz game the other night.  He bought her this outfit and pom poms and she was thrilled to go cheer for the team. 

After her popcorn was gone, she got bored and ancy; couldn’t really pay attention to the gam. 

That’s my girl!

Minnie Me

In married with children on March 30, 2009 at 10:10 pm

Tessa got a new haircut and it looks very similar to my haircut.  We look like a couple of hot mammas.  3-30-09-013

mountain fun

In married with children on March 23, 2009 at 3:04 pm

3-23-09-003Some of you may not know that we have a mountain in our backyard.  It looks like something you might find at Cherry Hill or Lagoon and it is an interesting sight.  On one side, there is a drinking fountain, and a shower on the inside, neither of which still work.  Besides containing our pool pump and equipment, the mountain serves as a conversation piece and for very daring people, a cool way to cliff dive into the pool. 

With the weather being nice the last few days, the kids wanted to go outside to play.  They had fun climbing the mountain and told me to get my camera and take pictures. 

We are hoping to have a “tear down the mountain” party this summer so that we can build a pergola instead.  We will miss the mountain so.

toy box

In married with children on March 16, 2009 at 9:29 pm

My mom has often told me stories of my toddler-hood when I would empty my toy box and climb in.  There are even pictures depicting my old past time.  That’s why I was so tickled to find Tessa enjoying herself inside her toy box. 

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When I took this picture, Joey said, “Oh boy, I can see the blog entry now….Like Mother Like Daughter”.  Well, for the record:  I did NOT say that.

out on the town

In married with children on March 16, 2009 at 9:11 pm

3-16-09-001We got some free tickets to Disney on Ice for Best Buddies.  Luckily for us, not all the buddies could go, so we got to use them!  They were good seats too, much better than the nose-bleeds we had last time. 

We rode the rails (front runner) to get there and it always feels kinda “cool” to me to use public transportation.  We are so green.  The only problem with riding the rails, is that you have to wait around for the rails to pick you up.  While we were waiting at the first stop, the kids posed for a few…

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While we waited for the runner, the kids started to get tired and running aimlessly into each other and laughing hysterically.  Tessa especially finds it very funny to tackle people and wrestle them to the ground.3-16-09-016

No children were harmed in the production of this blog.

lay right down and die

In married with children on March 13, 2009 at 2:03 pm

3-13-09-002Nate came how a few weeks ago very excited about being able to “lie right down and die”.  Upon further questioning, I discovered that Nate had earned a special “part” in his upcoming pre-school program because he had been the “best” singer.  He was VERY excited for this and he practiced all of the songs a lot.  We were excited to go watch him too, because the songs and actions that he practiced were pretty darn cute. 

His pre-school class performed for the high school students as part of a lunch time activity to promote the child care class.  All of the students did a great job, but I have to say that Nate stole the show when he did in fact, “lay right down and die” there on the floor.  He grabbed some flowers to hold on his chest and everything.  Everyone laughed and he was so proud of himself.  We were also proud of our little actor.

grins and giggles

In married with children on March 2, 2009 at 11:30 pm

3-2-09-0112I was just finishing up my breakfast this morning when I first heard the giggles.  It wasn’t until I went into Tessa’s room and turned on the lights that I saw the grins.  I guess that Nate woke up and climbed into Tessa’s bed.  I don’t know what they were talking about, but they sure thought it was funny.

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In married with children on February 27, 2009 at 8:19 pm

2-9-09-001My parents are here from Germany making selections for their new house.  They called and asked if we wanted to go see a movie with them.  My kids LOVE to go to the movies and they LOVE popcorn even more.  We went to see Coraline.  It was a really cute movie and Tessa sat through the entire movie….it was a modern day miracle. 

After the movie, the kids wanted to eat at what Tessa calls it, “Carlos Jr.”  They do love those darn chicken stars.  It was a fun outing with grandma and grandpa.  Thanks mom and dad!

special gloves

In married with children on February 17, 2009 at 9:39 pm

Nathan has been very curious about where babies come from lately.  He has been asking me all sorts of questions about it.  I had explained how he grew in mommy’s tummy, etc.  He said, “how did I get out”?  I told him that the doctor cut me open and took him out.  He had a few more similar questions  which I answered the best way that I could and then asked, “well, how did I get in there?”   I told him that his daddy put him in there.  He seemed satisfied with that answer and stopped asking for awhile.

About two hours later he returned with, “so, how did daddy get me in there?  With some special gloves or something?”  I told him, “no, daddy forgot to wear the special gloves”.

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Happy Heart Day

In married with children on February 15, 2009 at 4:41 am

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When you are married with children, Valentine’s Day becomes more about the kids than anything.  I think this is especially true when they are young and you don’t have a babysitter.

Tessa and I made pink heart pancakes for breakfast and spent some mommy-daughter time together.  It was really fun.  Tessa loves to cook and clean…I’m sure she’ll grow out of it once she’s actually old enough to do a good job. 

For dinner we had our traditional heart shaped pizza and bread sticks.  The kids planted valentine flowers for the window sill.  They also enjoyed a visit from my parents, who spoiled them with a lot of valentine candy.

birthday girl

In married with children on February 4, 2009 at 11:25 pm

2-4-09-014We went out for dinner for Katie’s (my sister-in-law) birthday last night.  We ate at Windy’s Sukiyaki, a place that I’ve never been before.  They had really good calamari and my salmon was pretty great as well.  My kids were obnoxious and I thought that Bob (father-in-law) was going to die of embarrassment.   I don’t think he’s used to dining with toddlers.  Nate threw a giant tantrum and Tessa spilled her drink.  Averi was perfect, however.  I was jealous. Maybe it was her birthday present to her mom?

For dessert, Jason brought her an ice cream cake and it was delicious.  I’m still thinking about it.

Encore

In married with children on January 23, 2009 at 5:01 am

andrea-camera-017Those of you that have ever tried to take two toddlers to the grocery store know that it is quite an exhausting experience.  Tessa is especially naughty at the stores these days, so I avoid these shopping trips at all costs, under normal circumstances.

The other day, Joey was gone to a Jazz game, so I had to take them both with me, as it was the last day of the sales and I needed to use my coupons.  Both of the kids started out in the car, but I had to separate them because they were fighting.  I finished my shopping as fast as possible because Tessa was grouchy and whining about everything.  In fact, I was so distracted with her, that I forgot all about Nate, still in the front.

I paid for the groceries and headed out to the car.  I put Tessa in first, and turned around to find little Nate, sound asleep, drool and all.  He must find these shopping excursions just as exhausting as I do.

Up Chuck E Cheese

In married with children on January 16, 2009 at 4:10 pm

1-15-09We’d been promising Nate that we’d take him to Chuck E Cheese for awhile now.  He had earned enough “smily faces” at school, so we owed him.  We decided to buckle down and go last night. 

I have to say that the pizza is not bad.  Everything else is, though.  It’s far too loud and there are far too many little kids running around.  My kids had fun, however, so I guess that’s all that matters.

Home Depoted out

In married with children on January 1, 2009 at 6:13 pm

Since embarking on this road to a better bathroom, I have made MANY trips to the Home Depot.  Most of these trips I try to make without my children because….well, have you ever tried to take two toddlers to Home Depot?  The other night, I had no choice and I tried it with the kids.  Tessa was very naughty, as usual and refused to sit nicely.  Nathan was equally unruly for most of the trip.  He was riding and climbing on the cart and finally got underneath to ride.  I didn’t object because he was finally quiet.  To my shock, as I went to pay, I noticed that he had fallen asleep!

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Before, During, Aftermath

In married with children on December 28, 2008 at 5:40 am

12-28-08-011After all was said and done, this was the state of my living room after the Christmas morning masacre.  Bothof my children slept in till 9:00 am.  Joey and I were both awake by 8:00, and wondering why they were still asleep.  Didn’t they know that Santa had come?  We laid in bed reminiscing of Christmas’s past, when we’d have such a hard time falling asleep and counting down the minutes till we could wake up to open presents.  Good times. 

12-28-08-015Tessa was thrilled with every one of her presents.  She exclaimed “wook mamma, wook mamma!” at each present.  We’d ask her, “What is it, Tessa?” and she’d say, “I don’t know!”  Every single present, without fail.  Her favorite was her baby, baby bottle and diaper bag. 

12-28-08-016Nate tore through his presents like a hurricane.  He  has not yet learned how to be gracious and expressed his displeasure with certain gifts.  He even cried a little.  His favorite was his new tiny snow shovel.  He saw it at Checker Auto parts and fell in love.  He had a chance to shovel on the 26th. 

12-28-08-012My gift from Joey showed up a couple weeks ago on my doorstep, un-wrapped, in this box.  Joey was really mad at Amazon.com because he had even paid extra for wrapping paper.  Regardless, I LOVE my new TV.  I also received a copy of the best movie ever made.

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I got Joe Joe a new coat and a cozy new robe, which he put on immediately.  His old one had holes in it and it was time.  He was also happy to get the 11th season of Simpsonsand the Black Knight DVDs.  He was especially happy to have the “special edition” Black Knight, complete with a two sided “coin”.  I’m not sure why this coin is so cool…but he seemed happy.  If he’s happy, I’m happy.

Twas the night before Christmas

In married with children on December 28, 2008 at 5:02 am

We attended our traditional family get together at the condo.  This has been a tradition in Joey’s family for a long time.  I really like Joey’s family and I have loved this tradition from the first time I joined in, when we were still dating.  They have always made me feel at home .  They’re tradition is pretty laid back, consisting of presents and food, lots of food. 

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Here is a picture of Averi Montana…Hannah’s little sister. 

In my family, we also had a Christmas Eve traditional dinner.  We would invite Grandma Aggie and Uncle Bob over each year.  After a fancy sit-down dinner of stuffed pork chops, we would then beg my dad to open just one present, which would of course, be our Christmas PJs. My parents have been in Germany for seven years, so it has put a damper on this tradition and the other side has been spoiled with our undivided attention.  Next year, however, my parents will be back and we might have to divide once again.

Butcha Family Christmas

In married with children on December 18, 2008 at 3:25 pm

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Well, it was the annual Butcher Family Christmas Party, a traditional getting together of all of my mom’s side of the family.  Aunts, Uncles, Cousins, and lots of kids.  We held the party at a senior center this year, instead of at someone’s home.  I was glad to have the extra room for the kids and not having to worry about my kids breaking something.  I also got to chat with some of my cousins that I don’t get to see very often.  Joey was bored, but I liked it this year.  We stopped having Christmas parties on the Koldewyn side, which I’m a little sad about.  I guess that at some point we will all just have our “own” family Christmas.  It’s inevitable because of how many kids we are all having.  I hate getting old.

Vanilla Ice

In married with children on December 18, 2008 at 3:14 pm

12-4-08-046Nater has been taking “learn to skate” lessons at South Davis Rec. Center.  He has loved it.  I have been quite amazed at his ability, as I can BARELY stand up on the ice.  It’s so cute to see these little kids in ice skates.

Last friday, Nater was in the Christmas skate program.  He got to perform his skills for a very large audience.  Santa came out and skated with him and his class.  He did a very good job, I was very proud.

stick to the ribs

In married with children on December 10, 2008 at 2:55 pm

12-4-08-043Nater is the exact opposite of a vegetarian.  I guess you might call him a “meat” atarian.  He will not eat most other foods.  He keeps it to chicken nuggets, hot dogs, and now ribs.  He LOVES him some ribs! 

 We are so lucky that he likes the most expensive thing on the menu!

Breakfast with Santa

In married with children on December 7, 2008 at 9:21 pm

064While Joe Joe was at home with the dish network guy (bonding), I decided to check out the annual “Breakfast with Santa” held at the Wight Reception Center in Bountiful.  It’s a fundraiser for the Family Connections Center.  I was surprised at first that it was kind of expensive, $13 for adults and $9 for children.  When we got inside, however, I was very pleasantly surprised by how nicely done it was.

First of all, it was not crowded.  This is a huge plus after the “Boo at the Zoo” nightmare in October.  We were seated at a very nicely decorated table with real napkins (not paper) and real utensils.  We were served an awesom full plate of food with juice and were told that we could have as much as we wanted.

Because it was not very crowded, the kids had plenty of time to talk with Santa and tell them what they wanted for Christmas and they got their pictures taken.  Afterwards, the kids were delighted to make two different crafts and get their faces painted.  In addition, there was a very talented blind man playing the piano and singing Christmas songs.

Two thumbs way up for “Breakfast with Santa”.  I will definitely go next year!

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Friday Night Lights

In married with children on December 7, 2008 at 8:52 pm

059It was the annual Clipper “Christmas Light Show” in Bountiful and is was FREEZING cold!  I was brave and took both of my little munchkins to it by myself as Joey wasn’t home in time.  There was a lot of whining and crying because Nater fell asleep just minutes before we had to get out of the car.

When the parade started, the whining stopped because they passed out candy and free glow in the dark items.  Tessa HAD to eat her candy cane right away, of course, so off came the gloves.  The whining and crying made a re-appearance when the parade was over because her hands were so cold.042

Minus the whining and crying, I really enjoyed the parade.  It was fun to see all of the lights on the floats and trying to figure out how they plugged them all in.  Do they have lights that can plug into the cigarette lighter?  We will definitely go again next year, only I’m bringing hot chocolate!

break FEAST

In married with children on November 30, 2008 at 4:41 am

Because we wouldn’t be eating our Thanksgiving feast until later in the day, I decided to cook a good break FEAST for brunch.  We had eggs, hashbrowns, sausages, and pancakes.  Nate and Tessa  both REALLY like breakfast foods, so they were happy.  11-29-08-086

Princess

In married with children on November 24, 2008 at 10:04 pm

11-24-08-001We attended a birthday party for Ali, daughter of some friends of ours.  It had a princess theme.  I was quite amused to notice that not one of the girls at the party wanted to where the princess hats, but both boys were wearing them proudly the entire night.  Little Nater and Braidan playing “detective” in their princess hats.  It was very cute.

Nater was saddened later that night when I had to remove the hat so that he could put on his pajamas.  I told him he could wear in again in the morning.  Luckily, he had forgotten about his princess hat the next morning.

Sleep like a baby

In married with children on November 18, 2008 at 9:44 pm

I love my kids, but I REALLY love them when they are asleep.  They look like little angels.  Joe Joe and I “peek” in their bedrooms at night quite often, almost ritualistically.  I watch them as they sleep and feel guilty for getting so frustrated with them during the day.  I know that you probably won’t believe this…..but,  I “yell” at my kids sometimes.  Shocking, I know. 

Keeping this in mind, I have a new goal:  Think of sleeping children when getting upset.  Why wait until new years?  I’ll start now. 

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cutting it up

In married with children on November 14, 2008 at 9:31 pm

11-14-08-001Because Nater’s hair was growing out of control, we decided to get it cut!  I had a coupon (of course I did) for a place called “Cookie Cutters” in Bountiful.  It’s a salon for kids.  It was really cute.  They had little cars and planes for the kids to sit in while getting their hair cut, little tvs with fun movies playing, and a fire engine to lay down in while washing their hair.  They even had a little playground in the waiting area and a tiny toilet in the bathroom.  Nater enjoys his haircuts very much anywhere he goes, but he really enjoyed this place.11-14-08-0041

 

T-dog also had a great time climbing in and out of the cars and posing for mommy to take pictures.  It was a fun enough place, but the prices were a little to high for a cheapy like me.  So, thumbs up if you have a coupon, if not, go to Fantastic Sams.

After the haircut was complete, we checked out a sweet new Gelato place.  Yummy!

Best Buddies

In married with children on November 7, 2008 at 11:04 pm

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I’m the advisor for Best Buddies at Viewmont High.  Best Buddies, for those that don’t know, is an organization much like Special Olympics whose goal is to provide people with intellectual disabilities with one to one friendships with “typical” peers.  It’s a great organization for teenagers to be a part of.  I love seeing these “typical” teenagers grow and learn from their disabled counterparts and seeing my special ed students make and keep friends that they not have had otherwise.

Each month we have an activity in which all of the “buddy pairs” get together and do something fun.  I take my kids with me most of the time. They look forward to the activities and  have watched and learned a lot already.  Whenever we see someone with a disability in the community, NTPP will say, “Look mom, it’s a best buddy”.  I am proud that my kids are aware of these people and consider them to be “buddies”.  I hope that they’ll spread the word to others as they get older.

Trick or Treat

In married with children on November 2, 2008 at 4:19 am

Halloween is by far my favorite holiday.  I thought I better display our awesome costumes.  T-dog dressed up as “Jo Jo” from “Jo Jo’s Circus” and NTPP was “Goliath”…jo jo’s pet lion.

Joe Joe dressed up as “Dwight” from “The Office”.  He is holding his plate of jello, complete with his embedded stapler.  His co-worker, Lindsay went as “Pam”.  Pretty cute, I must say…

I went as a goat this year.  It is a repeat costume that I wore a few years ago.  I spent a lot of time on that costume, I thought it should get some more use.

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Harsh Rewards

In married with children on October 23, 2008 at 4:51 pm

Have you ever worked hard for something that you thought you really wanted and then found out that you didn’t really want it THAT bad?  In other words, it was NOT worth the trouble.  This happened to my daughter, ”T-dawg”,  last night.  She worked very hard to get potty trained all in hopes of getting her ears pierced.  She’s been talking about getting earrings for over six months.  She was so excited to FINALLY get them done.  She sat eagerly up to the table and watched closely as the lady prepared all of the materials.  She picked out some cute pink daisy earrings and held a pose to get them in.  When the gun was fired a distinct look of disappointment came over her and she instantly put her hands to her ears and cried out, “NO, NO, NO”, and “owie, owie, owie!!” and I started to feel like a bad mom.  Shoppers at the mall were staring at the whole scene and shaking their heads.  I told a few people, “I promise that SHE wanted them, I didn’t make her do it!”  After a sticker, a sucker, dinner at Chic-Fil-A, and an ice cream cone, she felt better.  This morning, she sat up in bed, grabbed her ears and exclaimed “I have pretty earrings”.  I guess it was worth it after all.